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bdsm:

Or: BDSM / BDS-&-M / B & D/S & M , a generic term for alternate, non-standard sexuality comprising any or all of the activities covered by its acronyms: B-&-D = bondage-and-discipline , D & S = domination-and-submission , S & M = sadism and masochism . BDSM play is by mutual consent, wich distinguishes it from abuse and assault, just as consent distinguishes sex from rape; games, scenes or scenarios, are negotiated transfers of power between consenting partners and encompass physical and/or psychological interactions. BDSMers belong to all sexual orientations: heterosexual , homosexual , bisexual , transsexual , monogamous or polyamorous; some individuals even view BDSM as their sexual-orientation ; whatever role they assume during a scene or scenario, top or bottom , dominant or submissive, dominator or slave , BDSMers are not necessarily submissive or dominant in other aspects of their lives. BDSM includes a wide range of alternate (often described as kinky) sexual activities: animal-training (human puppy dog , ponygirl, ponyboy, pony rides, doggy training, worm games, faux bestiality), asphyxiation, being blindfolded, being gagged, being serviced, belting , beating (hard or soft), biting , bodmod (body modification), body-worship , bondage (light or heavy), boot (or foot) worship , breast-bondage , breast whipping , branding , brown-showers, caning , catheterization, chauffering, choking, clothespins, cock worship , collars, corporal-punishment , corset wearing, cuffs , cutting, double-penetration , electrical toys (including ultraviolet-wands and electroshock toys), enemas, exhibitionism, face slapping, fantasy rape, fantasy gang rape, fire and ice, fisting , following orders, forced dressing, forced nudity, forced servitude, full body strapping , furniture of torture (slings, St. Andrew's crosses, etc.), genitorture, golden-showers, hairbrush spanking, hair pulling, harnessing, head hoods , heavy-leather use, high heel worship , homage with tongue , hot-waxing, housework, humiliation (in private or in public), ice cubes, infantilism , interrogations, kidnapping, kneeling, leather restraints, leathersex, lecturing, licking, massage, medical scenes, mouth bits , mummification, nipple clamps, nipple weights, oral-anal play, over-the-knee spanking, orgasm denial , orgasm control, phone-sex , physical examinations, piercing, psychological games (Uniform Role Playing and Daddy/Boy/Girl games, etc.), pussy whipping , pussy worship , religious scenes, role-playing, rope bondage , saran-wrapping, scratching, serving as a maid, sensory deprivation, serving as furniture, sexual-deprivation , shaving, spanking, slapping, trampling, speculums (anal or vaginal), spreader-bars, stocks, straightjackets, strap-on-dildos, suspension, swapping, swinging , tape gags, tattooing, teasing , tickling , triple-penetration , uniforms, verbal humiliation , video-taped scenes, voyeurism , watersports, whipping (with a whip , a bullwhipping, a riding-crop , a cat-o-nine-tails), wrestling. Bestiality is excluded.

Quotes:

(1) Alberta Marlow (Mary Astor) to Rick Leland (Humphrey Bogart) in Across the Pacific (1942): ' It's true! Seeing me in pain gives you pleasure.' But then she's complaining about a mild sunburn.

(2) Morticia (Anjelica Huston) to Gomez (Raul Julia) in The Addams Family (1991): ' Don't torture yourself, Gomez. That's my job .'

(3) Bert (Robert Lindsay) speaking of Tess Trample (Carmen Du Sautoy) and her husband Sid (Robbie Coltrane) in Bert Rigby, You're a Fool (1989): ' A nympho and a schizo; their marriage was a perfect blend of sex and violence .'

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