bondage and discipline:
Or: bd / BD / b/d / B/d / B and D / b and d / b & d / B-&-D / B .D. More rarely: bondage-and-dominance / bondage-and-domination , a type of sexual relationship consisting of lightly sadomasochistic scenarios in which a submissive partner is physically restrained and then disciplined, chastised, or punished physically or psychologically by a dominant partner . Discipline is almost always symbolic and much lighter than in sadomasochism; characteristically it contains little physical pain or discomfort but relies heavily on verbal abuse , threats, and humiliation , and on light punishment and torture (spanking, whipping) to enforce obedience, servitude or enslavement. Master-slave role playing scenarios are negotiated beforehand by the partnerS; sexual etiquette requires that the dominant not use the situation to fulfill exclusively his/her own fantasies, particularly ones that the bottom doesn't find arousing. See also sadism ; masochism ; sadomasochism.Quotes:
(1) Molly (Rene Russo) to Tin Cup/Roy McAvoy (Kevin Costner) in Tin Cup (1997): 'You might try being saddled sometime: the smell of leather , the sting of the whip ...'
(2) Susan (Edie McClurg), a swinger , invites Mary Bland (Mary Woronov) and her husband Paul (Paul Bartel), for a little kinky sex at a party in Eating Raoul (1982):
-- Susan: ' We were wondering if you'd like to get together and have a little fun? '
-- Mary: ' What did you have in mind? '
-- Susan: ' Oh, gee , we're up for about anything. You see we're both bies so we can go either way , but actually we do like straight-sex . Moose is into voyeurism and I'm into exhibitionism. We like B-&-D , but we don't like S & M . We met at A & P , but we don't like labels .'
-- Mary: ' Very nice of you to ask us but we're actually into Saint-Bernards .'
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